Memorial Day weekend is upon us, and as we prepare to celebrate what has become the traditional start of summer, I think it is important to pause and reflect on the true meaning of this holiday: it is a time to remember those servicemembers who have died fighting for our country.
The first national observance of those who gave their lives in the defense of freedom was in 1868, specifically honoring the Soldiers and Sailors who had perished in the Civil War. As time went on, and conflicts ensued, we added to that growing list of men and women who had given their last full measure of devotion. The two world wars in the first half of the 20th Century cemented this day of remembrance, and it officially became a national holiday.
It is not a day to thank a Veteran for their service, for we are the lucky ones who came home. It is not a day to wish someone “Happy Memorial Day”, for there are no happy memories associated with losing friends and comrades in combat. It IS a day to find a Memorial Day ceremony in your town or county, and spend some time quietly reflecting on the men and women who had their lives cut short, that we may live in this Nation unharmed. It IS a day to visit a national cemetery, and reflect on the names written on those white headstones, and honor those who rest there eternally.
As you gather with family and friends this weekend, and welcome the summer, take a moment to pause, and remember why we have this holiday. Say a prayer or have a thought for those who donned the uniform of our country to defend our freedoms, and never returned. Then enjoy the day; those we honor on Monday would want you to.